OK.
You have joined a couple of dating services and written a
killer profile. You’ve uploaded a good picture and now
you are going to chat with a contact. What now? How do you
start separating those who have real potential and those who
don’t have any potential at all? If you can master how
to effectively screen applicants, this will be most important
online relationship help that you've ever received.
You need to find out something about who this strange woman
really is and not just who she wants you to believe she is.
It would be nice if women wore labels like “Gold Digger”
or “Daddy’s girl”….but they don’t
so it’s up to you to find these things out and you can’t
just ask direct questions. You need to know what mistakes
you can avoid making and how to impress this lady if you decide
you want to do that.
After you are past the initial small talk, ask her, “What
are the biggest mistakes guys make when dating online?”
Listen carefully to her answers. She’s going to tell
you a lot about herself and her views on men in general.
Next you should ask her, “What do you really think about
online dating?” Now she will tell you if she has had
any bad experiences dating o line and help you to avoid making
the same things wrong.
Now for the all-important one…..”What caused the
break up in your last relationship?” If she puts all
the blame on the guy, you should probably move on to the next
prospect. If she takes all the blame herself, you should probably
do the same. If she says the breakup was by mutual consent
or that the relationship just wasn’t right for either
of them, you’ve heard the right answer. Move forward
but always with caution.
Asking the right questions will give you insight and make
you more confident when you meet the lady for the first time.